As usual, it’s been a long time between updates but hopefully the three hours I just spent organizing and uploading photos will make up for it. First, there is the trip to beautiful Bok Tower Gardens with Kelly’s parents.

Second, there’s Sophie’s eleventh month photos.

And finally, the main event: Sophie’s first birthday party photos!

Kelly, Sophie and I would like to say a big thanks to everyone who called with well-wishes or attended Sophie’s first birthday party. It was a blast and Sophie had a wonderful time. (She slept like a rock that night.) Thank you for making the day special.

The only hard part was not having enough time to spend with everyone. It’s amazing how easy it is to take quality time with friends and family for granted. When you are young, you can’t seem to get away from your family and vacations to relatives are frequent and mandatory. Eventually, you go to college, get a job, have children, and you realize that you can’t find enough time to spend with the people who matter most. It’s an odd society we’ve created for ourselves.

I think that is one of the reasons things like social networking sites like Facebook have attracted so many people beyond the young and trendy. With Facebook, I communicate with friends and family around the world in small spurts throughout the day. Just like I did throughout childhood and school; before a job demanded my social times to be segmented into breaks, weekends, and vacations. We’re social creatures by design and we do more than enjoy regular human interaction, we require it.
I recently saw a new scientific study that discovered getting together with friends to chat about your problems actually causes your body to release a chemical that strengthens and repairs your DNA structure. Think about that the next time you “waste time” chatting around the water cooler or take a long lunch.

As usual, Sophie has been keeping us busy with all the things a not-quite-one-year-old goes through. Our schedule has changed so many times that I can’t even remember all of the iterations. The most difficult change happened last weekend at 1 am:

Sophie was nestled all snug in her bed,
While visions of Cheerios danced in her head;
With Kelly in her ‘kerchief, and I in my cap,
Had just settled down for a long night’s nap.

When out of Sophie’s room there arose such a clatter,
We sprang from the bed to see what was the matter.
Were her diapers all soiled; did a rash need some gel?
Nope, nothing was wrong, she’d just learned how to yell.

We also installed a new storm door last Saturday giving our front door the equivalent sealing power of a zip-loc double zipper bag. (Designed with you in mind.) Honestly, attempting to close the two doors with any force feels as if you will shatter the glass. Personally, I like to think of it as an airlock like you see in sci-fi movies. Unfortunately, I won’t be able to relive any dramatic decontamination scenes due to my body greatly exceeding the two inch space between the doors. But adding that to our door and window improvements helps to keep out the road noise.

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For now, we are leaving the blog and Youtube videos open as they have been. We’re sorry for making you jump through hoops just to look at her photos but there are some creepy people out there who don’t need any help.

In other thoughts, I have been working to become more creative. Having a job doing creative work is very taxing and easily sucks away all of my creative juices. Taking the time to recharge is a must and I’m taking my time management a lot more seriously because of it. As many of you know, I have started a webcomic called “Bots” that I update weekly. www.tarobot.com/botsThis takes up a tremendous amount of energy but I don’t think I’ve enjoyed something this much since college. In order to keep myself going, I’ve had to make some resolutions about how I spend my time. So far, I only have 2 big time-sucks but I’m sure many more are lurking. Just thought I’d share:

I will no longer join Facebook apps that are not real games.
I don’t care how you spend your time online but I have wasted far too much of my own clicking boxes surrounded by advertising in order to make a number change. “Congratulations! You are now a level 2.”
I believe slot machines to be the lowest form of “entertainment” mankind has ever created. They require no skill, discourage interaction with other humans and turn people into greedy zombies pulling levers to see more sparkly things. I am finding the vast majority of Facebook apps are pretty much empty slot machines with ads all over them. I’m sure your favorite app isn’t like this but the ones I’m deleting are.

Once the Olympics are concluded, I will not make time to watch TV.
Having to repeatedly watch the same 20 ads during the Olympics made me realize how little I’ve been missing on TV. I also realized that I want to see Alltel’s wizard use a +5 Magic Fire spell on that “Chad” guy so I never have to see him again.
I love good TV and I wish I had more time to enjoy the shows my friends tell me about but there just isn’t time. I’m not boycotting TV, just refusing to spend time on it when I can be creating things or spending time with actual people who care about me.

We decided to go to breakfast just the two of us to enjoy some freedom, however all we did was lament about not having Sophie with us. We sat and thought about what she was doing, if the daycare worker was putting her down for a nap, if she was still crying and if we should just go back and get her. I really don’t remember if breakfast tasted good or not.

After breakfast Greg and I came home and both of us passed out in bed for two hours. We both woke up at noon and felt a lot better. When 12:45 hit, Greg and I jumped in the Scion and drove over to the daycare to get Sophie. We really couldn’t wait until 1:00. She was asleep in the arms of the daycare worker when she arrived. They said she cried pretty much the whole time, wouldn’t sleep or eat. She finally passed out at 12:25 in the daycare worker’s arms and wouldn’t let her get up to put her in the crib. She was VERY happy to see Greg and I. When she saw me she started squeal and reached out for me. I took her and gave her a big hug and kiss. This is going to be a difficult week for all of us. **sigh**

She also loves books. We bought the small board books from the Dr. Seuss collection. You can actually put all of her toys next to the pile of books and she will commando crawl to the books every time. She squeals with delight when we pull them out. Sometimes it gets so bad we have to hide them because she will not be satisfied until we read them to her 5 or 6 times. I know this sounds like a great thing to have, a child who loves books, however reading Hop on Pop six times each and every day can get monotonous. So far, her favorites are, Hop on Pop, Put Me in the Zoo, Are You my Mother?, Hands, Hands, Fingers, Thumb and the ever popular, Mr. Brown Can Moo, Can You? She has others, but these are her top five. Hopefully, we can get a video of dad reading her books to her, it is fun to watch.

However, the time is coming, August 4, that she goes to day care. Four hours every morning from 9-1. Greg will drop her off and Kelly will pick her up. We pray that she enjoys it and learns a lot. Day care will give me a chance to go back to work more hours and for Greg to get home at 5:30 instead of 7:30. Yay!!! We can eat at a normal dinner time. We will let you know how the whole day care thing goes. We are praying for the best.

• As you can see by the picture on the front page, she has learned how to drink from a sippy cup. It actually took one try and she figured it out. Although, instead of stopping when she was full, she kept on drinking and spitting the water out of her mouth into her lap.
• She loves to feed herself white bread. I just break off several pieces and she chases them around her tray until she gets one to stick to her fingers and up into the mouth it goes.
• She took her first few tentative steps while holding on to the coffee table edge. Although she has yet to figure out that her feet need to move before her hands do.
• Crawling is just a few weeks away. The instant you put her on the floor she wiggles, ungulates, squirms and pulls herself across the floor to her favorite toy. This doesn’t last for long, but she is definitely excited to be moving.
• Her favorite toys by the way are the three books that we purchased. She loves, “Are You My Mother?” (written by the guy who did, “Sam and the Firefly”), “Put Me in the Zoo” and Dr. Seuss’, “Mr. Brown Can Moo Can You?” The best part of these books is the chance to make sound effects which make her laugh and smile.

These are pretty much so far. We love to watch her grow and figure out her world one day at a time.

So, for those of you who didn’t see us for about a month (there are a lot of you) here’s a few antic-dotes of some of the new things Sophie’s been doing:
As you can see from the lead image to this post, Sophie has decided it is fun to stick out her tongue for long periods of time. It’s really cute and we enjoy it a lot but even more so that she came up with the idea on her own.

Eating solid foods isn’t new but the fact that she now can eat up to 2 ½ jars in one day surprised us. In true baby fashion she jumped from a few spoon-fulls to multiple jars without working her way up. We started to feed her one day and the next thing we knew there were more items for the recycling bin.

Sophie still hasn’t learned to crawl or walk but she pulls herself up more or less on her own strength. The entertainment center in our living room is at just the right height for her little hands and arms to find purchase and bring her up from a kneeling position. We are going to try and get it on video but she tires so quickly that it only occurs a few times a week. I’m sure that will change very soon. * ominous music plays *

One of my favorite developments is that Sophie has begun to understand the concept of reading. To help with memorization she has only a few books that we read to her over and over and over. On the flight back to Florida, I was reading her one of these and she stopped looking at the book and intently studied my mouth as I read the words. Even more fun, she tried mouthing some things herself

Finally, a note on Sophie’s photos. I have taken the time to better organize all of our photos on Flickr and I’ve changed a few things to make it easier for you to find what you want.
First, none of the photos or sets have changed but I consolidated all of our sets into four collections. This way, if you are looking for something, there are only four places to go.
Second, I have separated Sophie’s photo sets into two collections, Sophie by Month and Sophie by Events.
I hope this makes things a lot easier for you all but I welcome your suggestions. Kelly and I do our best to keep this stuff as simple as possible.

The short story is that Kelly and I were coming up to a light in the center turn lane. A woman was coming out of the gas station through two lanes of traffic on our right and didn’t see us. We ended up getting t-boned at a very slow speed. The woman tried to tell the officer it was our fault for not stopping but we obviously had the right of way. She got a ticket and we got to go home with a busted up car.

I would write more but I really don’t feel too funny having been in a situation where my six-month old daughter could have been seriously injured.

We’re obviously excited that she can perform this new acrobatic feat but we are also saddened because it marks the end of being able to leave her in one place. No more quick diaper refilling while she’s on the changing table. No more running to the other room to grab the phone. I was watching her while making coffee (step by step) and by the time I was finished, she was halfway across the living room floor with a proud smile on her face. Time to start thinking about what needs to be put away as more mobility is sure to follow.

 
Meanwhile, on the TV…
 

Kelly and I have been able to fit in some movie watching thanks to our AppleTV. Without the near instant movie rentals it provides, we wouldn’t be able to fit anything but bad tv shows between the time we put Sophie down and Kelly goes to bed.
Well, the other night we rented the 2007 Beowulf movie. This is another one of the recent crop of 3D animated movies featuring extremely realistic faces that cause Hollywood reporters to turn into Chicken Little. “Actors will be replaced with computers! The sky is falling, the sky is falling!”

It is a beautiful movie with many moments where you forgot that what you were watching wasn’t real, however, the plot was not so realistically rendered. The script writers really wanted to make something of substance but fell short. I guess it didn’t help that I had watched Blade Runner the night before. Blade Runner is a film that is full of such uncompromising excellence, a proper review would required me writing it in City-Speak. (Those of you who understood that last sentence should read it as an invitation to meet me at a nearby coffee shop for hours of intellectual yet geeky discourse.)

Beowulf was, for its time, an extraordinarily thorough collection of oral histories recanting the epic adventures of an Anglo-Saxon super-hero. On the contrary, the 2007 Beowulf film is just a big budget retelling of a fight between noisy neighbors who settle their differences by fighting and sleeping with each other. Grendel, who is supposed to be a physically overwhelming and frightening monster, is reduced to a cross between Resident Evil’s “Nemesis” and “Corky” from Life Goes On, Grendel’s mother is pretty much Angelina Jolie in gold paint, and Beowulf goes from olden-times super hero to flawed-for-no-reason braggart.
I won’t bore you with any more details but, just in case you were still interested in seeing this film, I thought I would end with a list of alternate movie titles.

Unofficial Beowulf Alternate Movie Titles

• Beowulf: Tis no Polar Express
• Beowulf: The biggest video game cut-scene since Final Fantasy
• Beowulf: Look who’s sleeping with Grendel’s mother now!
• Beowulf: The village common sense forgot.
• Beowulf: The block-party that just won’t stop!
• Beowulf: Yeah, our animators imagine Angelina Jolie naked too.
• Beowulf: Who’s left to keep repopulating this place?
• Beowulf: The hair that wouldn’t move